Milni
The Milni is the start of the ceremony where the Bride’s Family welcoms the Groom’s side, and a short prayer is recited (Ardaas). The two families exchange garlands as a symbol of them joining.
Ardaas
An Ardaas (prayer) is always done before any significant event. The Paathi’s recite the hymn invoking blessings of the almighty and giving thanks for those blessings already bestowed.
Anand Karaj
The Sikh Wedding translates to “Blissful Union”. The Groom will be seated facing the Sri Guru Granth Sahib Ji, the Bride will enter supported by her family and will be seated next to the Groom.
Pallah Di Rasam
The Bride’s parents will symbolically “join” the Bride and Groom by placing one end of the Groom’s scarf (palla) over his shoulder and into the Bride’s hand. This signifies the blessings to the couple.
Lavaan
First Laav
The promise to love forever and let go of the past.
Second Laav
The promise to be devoted completely to one another.
Third Laav
The promise to be faithful to one another.
Fouth Laav
The promise to be united and love God together.
Ardaas & Hukumnama (Final Prayer)
After the Laavan are completed, the couple are officially married. A final set of prayers are performed, and then an Ardaas with the entire congregation rising and asking for blessings for the couple and one another.
Karah Parshad
Karah Parsha is made from equal parts flour, sugar and butter, and is handed out to everyone, accepting it with both hands together. This tradition symbolises the spirit of love and sharing in the essence of the Guru’s teachings.
Langar & Sagan
At the end of the ceremony, family and friends line up to congratulate the newly-weds and gift them with pyaar (mony/ wedding-card). Afterwards, everyone comes together to share a traditional meal together in the Langar Hall.